Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Popularity and Personal Power

A retrospect of one of the books which has great influence on my life. This book has been of great help to me during the tough times in my teens. It is a great book and am fascinated by the simple definitions of Popularity and Personal Power. Read the gist of the book.

Your way to Popularity and Personal Power by James Bender and Lee Grahm

Key to Success: "One must understand and like oneself before one can possibly understand and care for others. More important than intelligence or ability is the art of getting along with people" says James Bender.

1. The New way to Popularity and Personal Power

Popularity and Personal Power are Simple to define and difficult to achieve.

What is Popularity?
Popularity is the ability to make people like and respect you.

What is Personal Power?
The ability to make people do what you want.

If you don't like yourself, you can't like other people; and if you don't like other people, they can't like you.

Too many intelligent people suffer from too little self-esteem

Read carefully and apply wisely

Your state of health colors your behavior towards other people. And conversely, your behavior towards other people colors your state of health.

Fundamentals of good human relationships by methods that are scientifically sound.

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